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The Biology and Psychology of Social Bonding: Building and Maintaining Connections
TLDR This episode explores the biology and psychology of social bonding, including the brain circuitries and neurochemicals involved, and provides actionable tools for building and maintaining social connections. It discusses the importance of healthy social bonds in childhood, the homeostatic circuit for social bonding, the role of dopamine in seeking social interaction, the impact of social isolation on cravings, the synchronization of physiological states in relationships, the role of oxytocin in bonding, and the challenges and pain associated with breakups.
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Today's episode is about the biology, psychology, and practices of social bonding, including the specific brain circuitries and neurochemicals involved in different types of bonds and actionable tools for building and maintaining social connections.
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Children and parents forming healthy social bonds has a significant impact on social bonds in adulthood, but it is possible to change and rewire neural circuits for social bonding based on experience, and there are universal features underlying all forms of social bonds.
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The homeostatic circuit for social bonding consists of a detector (the ACC and basolateral amygdala), a control center (the prefrontal cortex), and an effector (behavioral responses), with the fourth component being the subjective understanding of why we engage in social bonding and our place in a hierarchy.
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The social homeostasis circuit involves a detector system (ACC and BLA) that moves us towards or away from certain experiences, a control center (lateral hypothalamus and periventricular hypothalamus) that releases hormones and neuropeptides based on our interactions, and an effector system (dorsal raffae nucleus) that releases dopamine when we lack social interaction, causing us to seek out social interactions.
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When we lack social interaction that we expect, we become pro-social and seek out social interaction, but if we are chronically socially isolated, we become more introverted; introverts release more dopamine in response to social interaction and feel satisfied with brief or sparse interactions, while extroverts release less dopamine and need more social interaction to feel fulfilled.
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The dorsal RAFE nucleus and its dopamine neurons play a key role in social bonding and the experience of loneliness, with activation of these neurons inducing a loneliness-like state that motivates seeking out social connections, while inhibition of these neurons suppresses loneliness.
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Social isolation can lead to increased cravings for social interactions and food, as both stimuli activate the same dopamine system in the brain.
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Physiological synchronization, such as heart rate, between individuals is strongly correlated with the quality and depth of social bonds, and can be leveraged to enhance relationships, even without direct interaction, by engaging in shared experiences or stories.
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Shared experiences and narratives can synchronize the physiologies of individuals, acting as a bridge to establish social bonds, and this is particularly important in early attachment between child and parent.
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Early infant-parent attachment involves coordination and synchronization of right brain and left brain circuits related to the autonomic nervous system, with physical contact between mother and child actively coordinating their breathing, heart rate, and pupil size, and the release of oxytocin in both the child and the mother is closely associated with milk production and scales with the closeness of the relationship.
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Establishing bonds, whether it be between parent and child, friends, or romantic partners, requires both emotional empathy and cognitive empathy, as well as synchronization of bodily states.
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Oxytocin, a hormone associated with social bonding, has various effects on the body and is involved in behaviors such as orgasm, social recognition, pair bonding, honesty, and lactation.
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Oxytocin is involved in sexual response, and interactions between closely associated individuals, such as infants and mothers or romantic partners, release oxytocin at high levels, leading to increased bonding and feelings of connection.
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People with higher levels of oxytocin function actively seek out more social interactions on social media, indicating that the oxytocin system plays a role in online social bonding.
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Understanding the biological, neurochemical, and hormonal underpinnings of social bonding can help us strengthen and establish meaningful social bonds, while also providing insight into the challenges and pain associated with breakups.
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