The Science of Heartbreak: Understanding the Physical and Emotional Effects
TLDR Science is uncovering the physical and emotional effects of heartbreak, including the activation of the brain's pain center, physical symptoms like chest pains, and the connection between physical and emotional pain. Negative re-appraisal can help with healing and feeling validated in the pain of heartbreak.
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Science can help us understand the universal experience of heartbreak, including the pain of being dumped.
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Heartbreak can have physical and emotional effects on the body, and science is starting to understand why.
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Heartbroken people's brains show activity in the part of the brain that registers physical pain.
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Heartbreak activates the part of the brain that registers physical pain, and there is a connection between physical pain and emotional pain, suggesting that when people say they are hurting, they literally are hurting.
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Heartbreak can lead to physical symptoms such as chest pains and even a heart attack, known as Takutsobu's syndrome, which can also be triggered by other forms of stress.
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Negative re-appraisal, or reminding yourself of all the negative qualities of your ex, can help with getting over heartbreak and feeling validated in your pain.
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Heartbreak can make people feel like they are screwing up, but it is a common and valid experience that science can help us understand.