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The Psychology of Revenge: Why Seeking Revenge Can Lead to Negative Consequences
TLDR Seeking revenge may seem satisfying in theory, but in reality, it often leads to negative consequences and feelings of guilt. Revenge is a natural instinct found in both animals and humans, but studies have shown that engaging in revenge does not lead to relief or decreased hostility, and instead, it can perpetuate negative feelings and create a cycle of retaliation.
Timestamped Summary
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Revenge is often portrayed as satisfying in movies, but in reality, carrying out acts of revenge can lead to negative consequences and feelings of guilt.
05:14
Carrying out acts of revenge can lead to negative consequences and feelings of guilt, and revenge is an evolutionary instinct found in both animals and humans.
10:08
Revenge is a natural instinct found in both animals and humans, and it serves as a way to solve problems and prevent future problems among animals, while in humans it is a result of our evolutionary history of relying on one another and punishing those who transgress.
15:11
Revenge is more fulfilling in the imagination than in reality, and carrying out an act of revenge can actually create negative feelings, but the thought of revenge serves as a costly signal demonstrating risk-taking on behalf of the group.
20:30
Revenge is seen as a linchpin of society, as it serves as a threat that keeps people from cheating or harming others, and while revenge itself may not be fulfilling, the idea of it is better for the individual.
25:39
Historically, cultures with weak law enforcement or a lack of trust in the system are more prone to seeking revenge, whether it be through street justice, workplace shootings, or school shootings, and the idea of catharsis theory, where releasing negative emotions through aggression leads to relief, has been debunked by science.
30:30
Studies have shown that engaging in revenge or letting out aggression does not lead to relief or decreased hostility, but rather increases anger and hostility.
36:05
Revenge can make you feel better if the person who wronged you suffers and knows that they are suffering because of what they did to you.
40:57
When seeking revenge, people often distribute unfair actions even more than the initial wrong, leading to a cycle of retaliation that perpetuates negative feelings and fails to restore moral equilibrium.
45:37
The podcast concludes with the idea that revenge should be avoided as much as possible, but if it can't be, don't be too hard on yourself and try again next time.
50:16
The email from Ginger, a dental assistant, confirms that the dentist mentioned in a previous episode is indeed Dr. Castleberry from Maine.
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