The Orgasm Gap: Exploring the Science and Social Factors Behind Women's Sexual Pleasure
TLDR This podcast delves into the orgasm gap between men and women, discussing the science behind orgasms and the social factors that contribute to the disparity. It explores brain activity during orgasm, physical differences in genitalia, and the impact of shame, guilt, and societal prioritization of male pleasure on women's ability to experience orgasms.
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00:00
The podcast explores the orgasm gap between men and women and the experiences of women in Africa in achieving orgasms.
04:10
The podcast explores why women aren't orgasming as much as men and delves into the science behind orgasms, starting with the brain.
08:46
Women wearing the Hannibal Hector Happy Helmet were able to orgasm in an MRI, and the brain activity during orgasm showed increased activity in the hypothalamus.
13:26
Research has shown that there are similarities in brain activity during orgasm between men and women, suggesting that the brain cannot fully explain the orgasm gap, and physical differences in the body, such as blood flow to the genitals, are also similar between people with penises and those with vaginas.
17:46
Research suggests that blood flow to the genitals during periods of REM sleep is similar between men and women, and while testosterone and estrogen may play a role in sexual response, physical differences in the clitoris and penis may also contribute to the orgasm gap.
22:07
Physical differences between male and female genitalia may contribute to the orgasm gap, as it is easier to locate sensitive spots on the penis compared to the vulva, but there is still much unknown about orgasms and new research is uncovering remarkable ways people of all genders and bodies experience pleasure.
27:10
The shame and guilt associated with sex, particularly for women, can significantly impact the ability to experience orgasms and feel satisfied with one's sex life.
31:13
The orgasm gap between men and women can be attributed to social factors and the prioritization of male pleasure, as evidenced by higher orgasm rates for women in lesbian relationships and during masturbation, as well as lower orgasm rates for trans women and the impact of sexual assault, antidepressants, and racist stereotypes on sexual pleasure.
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Learning about the social and psychological factors that affect sexual pleasure can provide relief and validation, but even with this knowledge, it can still be a barrier to orgasm, and strategies such as deep breathing, open communication with a partner, and focusing on pleasure can help overcome this.