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The Debate Over Attachment Parenting: Does It Really Lead to Better Outcomes for Children?
TLDR Attachment parenting, which emphasizes keeping the baby close, breastfeeding, and co-sleeping, is based on the concept of secure attachment. However, research shows that breastfeeding does not necessarily lead to secure attachment, sleep training does not harm babies and can actually benefit both babies and parents, and there is no scientific evidence that attachment parenting leads to better children.
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Attachment parenting is a style of parenting that emphasizes keeping the baby close at all times, breastfeeding, and co-sleeping, with the belief that it will lead to better adult outcomes for the child.
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Attachment parenting is based on the concept of secure attachment, which is a relationship between an infant and a particular adult that makes the child feel safe and confident in the availability and responsiveness of that adult, and this attachment can be tested using the Strange Situation Procedure.
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Breastfeeding is beneficial for a baby's health, but it does not necessarily lead to secure attachment, according to research.
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Attachment parenting proponents believe that parents should respond immediately to a baby's cries, while sleep training advocates argue that letting babies cry can have long-term detrimental effects, but research shows that sleep training does not harm babies and can actually benefit both babies and parents.
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Sleep training or letting a baby cry a bit will not harm them or their relationship with their parents, and can actually help babies sleep through the night.
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Sleeping in the same bed as your baby does not help them attach and poses a risk of sudden, unexpected infant death.
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Carrying a baby in a sling does not help them to securely attach, according to experts, and there is no good scientific evidence that attachment parenting leads to kids who are attached.
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While secure attachment as a baby can positively influence you into adulthood, genetics play a larger role in our personality, intelligence, and mental health, and there is no good scientific evidence that following the rules of attachment parenting leads to better kids.
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Attachment parenting involves making countless decisions and sacrifices, but ultimately it is done for the well-being and anxiety management of the parent rather than the child.
