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The Controversial World of Mail Order Marriages
TLDR Mail order marriages, also known as international marriage brokerages, have a long history in the United States and have evolved from government-sanctioned arrangements to a controversial industry. While some see it as a form of human trafficking, others argue that it provides opportunities for individuals seeking a better life.
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Mail order marriages, also known as international marriage brokerages, involve marriages where the husband and wife are generally unknown to each other and one of them usually travels a long distance to be with the other.
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Mail order marriages are often judged harshly in the United States, with people assuming that the men seeking brides are dominant and abusive, but there are also cases where people genuinely look for love and companionship.
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Government-sanctioned and supported mail order marriages were common in the early years of America's founding, with laws created to make it more attractive for women to become mail order brides, offering them more rights and opportunities than they had back home.
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Marriage in the early years of America was often a financial arrangement, but laws were created to make it more attractive for women to become mail order brides, offering them more rights and opportunities than they had back home.
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The birth of the mail order marriage industry began with the rise of matrimonial advertisements and personal ads in the 19th century, allowing women to have some agency in avoiding arranged marriages and choosing their own suitors, but it was met with criticism and societal disapproval.
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The criticism of mail-order marriages has evolved over time, from accusations of women seeking green cards and being sex workers to concerns about human trafficking and power imbalances in relationships.
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Mail-order brides are often not victims, but rather demonstrate initiative and self-starter-ness by seeking a better life for themselves and their children, and it is not fair to judge their situations or relationships based on traditional notions of love and marriage.
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Mail-order marriage agencies offer different services, including tours where men can meet prospective brides, but the industry is controversial and can be seen as a form of human trafficking.
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Mail-order brides who come to the US have conditional resident status for two years and are dependent on their husbands, making them vulnerable to abuse and exploitation.
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The lack of data and statistics on mail-order marriages makes it difficult to form a solid opinion on the industry, but it is important to support women who may be suffering from abuse or exploitation.
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Mail order marriages can be a life-saving opportunity for individuals who have no rights in their own country, and it's not just women who are seeking these arrangements, as men in Ireland have also started offering themselves as potential husbands.
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