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Erich Fromm's Philosophy on Love and Human Existence
TLDR Erich Fromm believed that love is the key to addressing the existential loneliness experienced by conscious beings, emphasizing the importance of genuine connection over transactional, narcissistic love. He argues that mastering the art of love requires humility, courage, faith, and discipline, akin to mastering a difficult piece of music.
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Eric Fromm believed that love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence, which he saw as rooted in the separateness and existential loneliness experienced by conscious beings.
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In modern societies, people often seek romantic love as a strategy to alleviate feelings of separateness, but Erich Fromm argues that many fail in their pursuit of enduring love due to a flawed strategy of trying to become more lovable rather than focusing on genuine connection.
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Transactional, narcissistic love based on mutual appeasement of insecurities and weaknesses leads to relationships where partners are seen as consumable products providing tangible benefits, ultimately resulting in boredom and failure according to Erich Fromm.
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Fromm believes that the key to real love is learning to be alone rather than seeking someone to fill insecurities, as love is an active striving for the happiness, growth, and freedom of its object.
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Love, according to Fromm, is a choice to actively shine love outward to everything and everyone, requiring the ability to be alone and see people for who they are rather than what they can do for you.
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Love, according to Erich Fromm, is likened to an art form that requires full-time dedication and active striving for the growth and happiness of others, but modern society's focus on success and materialism poses a challenge to achieving mastery in the art of love.
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To master the art of love, Erich Fromm emphasizes the importance of humility, courage, faith, and discipline, comparing the process to mastering a difficult piece of music through dedication and active orientation in many spheres of life.
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