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Addressing fears and concerns about death in healthcare
TLDR Dr. B.J. Miller shares his personal story of a life-altering accident that led him to a career in hospice and palliative care, emphasizing the importance of aligning healthcare with conversations about death and care to improve the system.
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The guest, Dr. B.J. Miller, discusses his personal story of a life-altering accident and how it influenced his career in hospice and palliative care.
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A life-altering accident led to Dr. B.J. Miller's memories starting in the hospital after being taken to the ER for burns and then transferred to a burn unit where he experienced the harsh reality of burn injuries and the challenges faced by patients and their families.
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Dr. B.J. Miller reflects on his vulnerability and the vivid memory of the night before his initial amputations, where he mistakenly thought the amputation was just a dream.
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After his initial amputations, Dr. B.J. Miller experienced a mix of denial, poignant moments, and a gradual awakening to his own feelings, which included physical pain, embarrassment, and concerns about his future relationships and image.
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Growing up with a brilliant and intense older sister, Lisa, who later tragically took her own life, significantly influenced Dr. B.J. Miller's journey into medicine.
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Studying art history led Dr. B.J. Miller to pursue medicine as a way to understand and utilize his personal experiences with disability in a meaningful manner.
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Dr. B.J. Miller's interest in human beings and creativity led him to pursue medicine, where his personal experiences with disability became an advantage in empathizing with patients.
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Dr. B.J. Miller's personal experiences with his sister's mental health struggles and suicide led him to question his career path in medicine and ultimately discover his calling in palliative care during his internship.
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A transformative encounter with a palliative care doctor shifted Dr. B.J. Miller's perspective towards a career focused on being with people as they navigate life's challenges, rather than fixing them.
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Our aversion to looking at death is deeply ingrained physiologically and culturally, but confronting mortality can lead to a greater appreciation of life.
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Understanding whether someone is more afraid of the process of dying or of being dead can guide how to address their fears and concerns about death.
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Health care should be aligned with the human condition, focusing on conversations about death and care to improve the system.
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Patients at the National Cancer Institute often have metastatic disease and are at the end of their lives, leading to reflections on regrets and desires, with many wishing they had come to terms with death earlier.
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Patients at the end of their lives are often heavily medicated to manage pain, making it challenging for deep conversations, emphasizing the importance of expressing end-of-life wishes earlier.
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Randy chose to focus on spreading love during his final days, opting for hospice care over euthanasia, which allowed him to connect with more people and live out his mission of love.
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Embracing pain and suffering, allowing the body to naturally progress towards death, and learning and growing from the experience is often more meaningful than seeking numbness or avoidance.
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